Monday, November 16, 2009

ode to the death of a "Just another person"

What can you say bout a lady tht just died?That she wasnt all that gorgoeus,almost always shied away from a conversation, and would've been my teacher?

Dhanya,passed away at the age of 27,still a sapling to the Earth,desires unheard, and battling it to the end. She wasnt really anyone to me. I've never seen her. She was just another character out of my mom's work stories. Her dad and my mom used to work at the same SBT branch.

Remarkably it so happened that after all these years, I happened to pick the same branch of engineering at the very same college. So then why would I spent my time on a seemingly meaningless note? The very answer lies in the truth that I dont want to be writing this. I would've loved it if she would have been in her home studying as she always did for her Mtech classes.

An year ago she had been taken to the lakeshore hospital, as a cancer patient. It started as a mole on her body. Just another skin disease we all seem to get. Or so everyone thought.
The doctor got suspicious and sent her for check-up and soon it was confirmed.

There were stages in the treatment when she had it real tough.

After her graduation from CU she had tried the 'gate' exams and then started working at the college as a guest lecturer.In 2008 she had joined the Mtech dept in the same college.

Life went on, until a month ago when mom called me up to tell that Kunjukunju uncle's daughter had been discharged and she had shown a remarkable resistance to the cancer. She had been declared 100% free of cancer. A miracle.

Joy.Merry.And then the collapse at the Dept of Electronics. She was rushed to hospital but the doctors soon informed that her cancer had spread to different organs and there was no chance to save her. she had to wait for what was the eventuality.

She dint allow any visitors in the last few days. She dint want their sympathy. It was said she suffered pain,especially in the nights but wouldn't allow her dad to shift her to hospital. She lost her voice and had to write down her final few words.

And she died. With little fuss and all the love. Things had gotten worse and she had been taken to the hospital.

I have nothing to more to add to this so happens that many a million die every second. I know not what will happen to me tomorrow. But I do know why my eyes are moist and it aint just the lack of sleep.

I wonder if the doctors were right in giving her false hopes? Did she have the best two days in her life? Or did the person, who had showed incredible willpower to endure the pain, finally give in ,after she realized that the doctors had been lying? I don't know. Not that I ever will! But one thing is for sure! She wanted to live..

Monday, November 9, 2009

Being the Single guy!

ok!lemme get this straight! it isnt wht tht IIT Chetan guy says! gosh he had it so easy. girls inviting a fatso/student of her father to make out at home?or quallis?and then guys falling over mysterious phone calls in the middle of the nyt and ladies disappearing in trains? ya ryt!

k so heres the truth!being a single guy is not wht it seems on the fancy books,or the American pie movies.its worse and so much more fun.we are the totally unpredictable type!living life to the fullest.Free to design our paths forward.And do u know wht these fancy ladies tag us?' MEN'. [ARRRGGHHHHHH] { Yes u freaking other kind of homo sapiens thats why we wear trousers and not skirts.}

Beer,slut and everything nice:
its been nearly two yrs at college now and i really don know a gal tht has never been called a slut privately. it so happens.not tht we are exceptionally proud of calling everyone that but i guess its the trend these days. initially i found it very disturbing, cause school had been so different and sudden jump into coll was tough. but then i gradually got used to the concept and nowadays i really dont differentiate. i guess its the Single's way of telling how desperate they are!AND i am not gonna go protesting!:)
bout beer , i've personally found it an attitude thing but i can assure u there are lodsa guys who feed on it as if its so addictive..

ok then there are guys like me.for instance my fish kept jumping out of his new home that i named him kurt![hehe yes for the suicidal aspect solely]

did u know there are guys who shave their legs just because some girl in Mel Gibson's "wht women want" found it seductive? and then there are the fair and lovely creeps!then the " i haven bathed for a fortnyt cos i was busy reading Amartya Sen" prototype. to tell u the truth these guys are the 'desperate' singles. one wink and u'd probably have them following u carrying ur stuff and begging for order. these guys wear trousers all the tym,almost always specs laiden, and either reading the stars or deciphering the imaginary tea leaves on the floor.

and then comes the chicken soup.some guys read tht as if it were bible,to hell with tht! the point is we are a bunch of unique ppl having nothing common except the "single" tag.all these books proclaiming to have unlocked the keys behind singlehood is nothin but a waste of money.
cheers to life and merry be everyday!

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